Trains, Planes, & Vishwanathan Anand

The Grounding Silence…

10 Jan, 8 pm.  “The constellation right over your head is Orion.  The only constellation clearly visible from all corners of earth.   January is the best month to observe it in the northern hemisphere”, the spectacled guy educated me.  “What about that planet?” I asked, “that’s Venus, right?”  “No, it’s not,” he explained, “Venus is in an inner orbit planet; therefore, it is detectable only in the late evening hours. The one you are looking at is Jupiter.  On a clear night, you can even make out three of its moons with a simple telescope.”  “And is that Proxima Centauri, our closest cosmic neighbor?” I quipped.  “No,” he patiently elaborated again, “Proxima Centauri can be spotted only in the southern hemisphere.  The one you see is Sirius, the brightest star in the night sky.”

I was charmed by these free lessons in stargazing, considering my tutor was not even an amateur astronomer.  Instead, he was the first recipient of Rajiv Gandhi Khel Ratna award in 1992 and the first sportsperson to receive Padma Vibhushan in 2007.  One of the sharpest minds on our planet, the five-time world chess championVishwanathan Anand.  I marveled at his knowledge of the sky and touch of the ground, as we entered the club house and navigated through the blinding flashes of cameras.

An hour earlier.  Within minutes of picking up Vishy from the hotel lobby, I realized that we shared something in common: both of us learned the game of chess at the tender age of 6.  Except, he learned it the conventional style; I learned in my proprietary style—the carom way.  What is a carom way?  Simple.  Playing carom with chess pieces.  Perhaps that’s the only trick that I can teach the champion; the grandmaster seemed to have a handle on most other things that matter—both on and off the chess board.

It was a long drive. The venue was a club house in the outskirts.  The audience was going to be the young business leaders of Pune.  I was to moderate the session.  It was a daunting task.  How does one go about interviewing a star who has brains the size of a football field?  It would be much easier to just play a game of chess with him.  At least the ordeal would be over in two minutes!  I needed to prepare for the forthcoming challenge.  The intention was to derive benefit from a sneak preview of Vishy during our long drive.  Contrary to my preconceived notion, Vishy turned out to be an extrovert.  He opened up quickly, as deftly as his chess moves.   Amongst the insights that rolled out, the following twin tales stirred my emotional chords…

“1989: Shortly after I achieved grandmaster status in 1988, I was traveling in a train in Kerala.  An elderly gentleman sitting in the opposite seat started chatting with me.  He asked me “What do you do?”  “I play chess,” I stated.  He said, “Good, but what exactly do you do professionally?”  “Play chess,” I politely repeated.  The old man didn’t get it at first.  Then once he understood, he tried to dissuade me on my choice of profession, advising me how impractical it is to pursue such unrealistic career options.  After much cajoling, when he realized that I was steadfast in my thought process, he concluded with a resigned laughter… “Just remember, young man, you can’t make good money in chess unless you are Vishwanathan Anand!”

“2012: A couple of years back I was at Hyderabad Airport, walking along the security screening queue.  There was a man moving parallel to me by the adjacent screening belt.  He stared at me repeatedly.  As I collected my carry-on from the screening belt, the onlooker kept looking, desperately trying to place me. He finally smiled, walked over and shook my hand enthusiastically “Your last movie was great.  I really liked it!”

The stories were simple but elegantly summarized the prevailing prejudices in our society.   The man in the train encountered a plain-looking fellow traveler and generalized that he must be just another ordinary being of limited talent.  His behavior was not much different than how mainstream judges any stranger—a commoner unless proven otherwise.   Interestingly, the reaction of the man at the airport was the exact reverse.  To him, a celebrity is defined by how recognizable the outward appearance is.  Like many of us, his definition of stardom is someone – who portrays larger-than-life image on the silver screen.

Vishy’s narration had a strong emotive resonance. The ease with which he could relate to mainstream mindsets had transformed him into a commoner I could connect to.  It reassured me that interviewing him will be a cake walk.   The twin anecdotes were still ringing in my head as we arrived at the venue, paused for a short stargazing tutorial, and walked over to the clubhouse.

We entered the banqueting hall, eased into the podium chairs as I hosted the coffee-with-Vishy game.  The interview was a breeze.  His talk captivated the audience as we learned about his lifehis success and failures, his allies and rivals, his values and hobbies, his wife and son, and his laughter and tears.  The engaging interaction continued as I drove him back later in the nighthis favorite movies, TV serials, authors, friends, weekends, vacations etc. 

His book was wide open; however, my mind kept struggling to sort out one missing chapter in his manuscript.  Then right before we reached the hotel, I couldn’t resist popping the question “Did you ever reveal your true identity to the train or airport fellow?” His answer was on the anticipated lines “They never asked!”  Sometimes, it is not the soaring words but the grounding silence that epitomizes a leader’s glory…



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  1. Amazing! the only words which I can think of comes from your blog itself. “Sometimes, it is not the soaring words but the grounding silence that epitomizes a leader’s glory…”I hope I have conveyed what I meant 🙂

  2. Still waters run deep.
    However, marketing is important. Mr. Modi is PM because he showcased his work in Gujarat.

  3. “After the game, the king and the pawn go into the same box.” – Irish Proverb

  4. What I wanted to echo here has been well stated by Mr. Chirag Bindal already.. at the end of life everyone has the same end.. but what I like to add here is that difference lies is where we try unknowingly if are we remembered when our present becomes history?

    Perhaps this is an important lesson that everyone needs to understand, no matter someone tries to belittle you or tries to put you down, the only emotion and person who can reflect it, deflect it or absort it is only ourself. Choice is always ours.. which allows you to walk present and paint a picture of future..

    It was a nice post to read!

  5. Humility and Humbleness are the traits of a great leader.
    They are the ones who let their work do the talking.
    And such people always find a place in History.

    As stated by Frank Ocean, “Work hard in silence, let success be your noise”

    A great read!

  6. It was a nice post to read!

  7. Dear Arun,
    Your blogs are always amazing to read. They always have some great learnings for life.
    Eagerly waiting for the next one.

  8. Thanks for a wonderful post again …
    Great sportsman who won world championship five times, and one of the most deserving candidate for Bharat Ratna. He is one of the two world champions who won the Classical, Rapid and Blitz world championships. Anand has won the Chess Oscar six times and he is the only world champion who won the world championship playing in all different formats (Match, Tournament, and Knockout). But the definition of stardom in society and political circle, has deprived this man from being Bharat Ratna…..

    Ajay

  9. Thanks for a wonderful post…

    “Identity is such a crucial affair that one shouldn’t rush into it”

    For the people whom you really matter they would already have made an effort to know everything about you, you past, present, how you look etc., and for those you don’t matter, you really don’t matter. No matter how great a person you are or how great your achievements are. So if you are rushing into revealing your identity you may be wasting your time as well as the opposite persons time many times.

    For great and well known people, such people who don’t know them or recognize them can many times prove to be blessing in disguise. When the opposite person does not know them, they can be their own-self without the pressure of “stardom” in their behavior and mind. They can also find out what the world really thinks about them. (If the person knows you, obviously he will be all praises about you in front of you, its only when they don’t know you, you get to know the reality.)

    Above all it a different experience, the one both will remember always. Like Vishwanathan Anand remembered it the person with him in the train would also remember it. The person in train when and if he realizes that he was with the “Vishwanathan Anand” he would think and tell his family and friends that such a genius person was with us full time. We did not recognize him nor did he introduce himself. Very down to earth person he is. So you have made a place in somebody’s memories in a different and interesting way and all without introducing yourself. :).

  10. Thanks for a wonderful post…

    “Identity is such a crucial affair that one shouldn’t rush into it”

    For the people whom you really matter they would already have made an effort to know everything about you, you past, present, how you look etc., and for those you don’t matter, you really don’t matter. No matter how great a person you are or how great your achievements are. So if you are rushing into revealing your identity you may be wasting your time as well as the opposite persons time many times.

    For great and well known people, such people who don’t know them or recognize them can many times prove to be blessing in disguise. When the opposite person does not know them, they can be their own-self without the pressure of “stardom” in their behavior and mind. They can also find out what the world really thinks about them. (If the person knows you, obviously he will be all praises about you in front of you, its only when they don’t know you, you get to know the reality.)

    Above all it a different experience, the one both will remember always. Like Vishwanathan Anand remembered it the person with him in the train would also remember it. The person in train when and if he realizes that he was with the “Vishwanathan Anand” he would think and tell his family and friends that such a genius person was with us full time. We did not recognize him nor did he introduce himself. Very down to earth person he is. So you have made a place in somebody’s memories in a different and interesting way and all without introducing yourself. :).

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